View of a pagan drinking horn in the foreground while in the background one can see the celebrant Haukur Bragson and a bride and groom.

Pagan weddings in Iceland

In the past decades, pagan weddings have grown in popularity in Iceland. We interviewed pagan priest Haukur Bragason to learn more about pagan weddings. Keep reading to learn what he has to say about the practices and traditions.

Pagan weddings in Iceland are beautiful ceremonies officiated by a pagan priest. Often, when couples contact Haukur Bragason to get him to officiate their wedding, they nervously tiptoe around the fact that they’re not pagan.

Pagan wedding in Iceland, black and white photo
Picture by Kristín María for Pink Iceland

Pagan weddings in Iceland: what does it all mean?

“That’s ok,” Haukur usually responds. “Me neither.” The answer is a joke to calm nervous brides and grooms to be, but there is some truth to it. Like most other members of Iceland’s Pagan Association – and unlike most monotheistic believers – Haukur doesn’t adhere to strict sets of rules. What’s more, he doesn’t believe in the Norse gods as tangible beings. Icelandic paganism, he explains, is about upholding tradition and a certain way of life, more spiritual than religious.

“When people tell me about their respect for nature, how much they hike and enjoy being outdoors, their love of animals I say: Yes! This is what paganism is about.” Anybody, wherever they are from, can identify with the core values of heathenism. These include honesty along with respect for all life and the awe of nature.

The old Norse religion

The old Norse religion, Ásatrú, was brought to Iceland by the first settlers and remained widely practiced until Icelanders formally became a Christian nation in the year 1000. Ásatrú was revived in 1972 with the founding of the Pagan Association and was once again recognized by the state in 1973. Since then it has grown leaps and bounds and is now the sixth-largest religious association in the country with over 4000 members who don’t follow any dogma or scripture but instead, familiarize themselves with mythical stories recorded by 13th-century scholar, Snorri Sturluson.

“Science didn’t have answers yet so people made up stories,” Haukur says. “They enjoyed envisioning giant wolves chasing the sun and the moon and Þór (e. Thor) drinking the ocean from the horn of Útgarða-Loki so the sea would swell.”

Pagans respect their origin and honor their forefathers and Iceland’s history through their practice, he says. Anybody, wherever they are from, can identify with the core values of heathenism which are honesty along with respect for all life and the awe of nature.

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Create your own adventure

Anyone can marry under the pagan association’s priests. You can be Icelandic or foreigners, straight or gay, pagan, or something entirely different. What’s more, Haukur can personalize the pagan ceremonies and include as many or few ritual elements as the couple prefers.

A couple holding on to a ring in a pagan wedding in Icleland
Picture by Kristín María for Pink Iceland

“I prefer to work with people so that they can design their own ceremonies,” Haukur says.

Usually, Haukur starts by sanctifying the site and the hour and then gives a short speech. He usually chooses a verse from old Norse poems such as Hávamál or Snorri’s Edda. He relates the specific passage to the couple and the occasion. Then, the couple exchanges oath that they have prepared beforehand, in their own language.

As they say, their oaths Haukur and the couple hold on to the oath ring. This is a metal hoop the size of a cake dish. The oath ring is an old tradition that just so happens to be very photogenic. “People shouldn’t think of pagan weddings as some sort of Lord of the Rings LARP, people should just be themselves.”

Pagan weddings in Iceland: the drinking horn

At that point, it’s usually time for the couple to place a ring on each other’s fingers. Next, Haukur declares them to be married. Finally, a big drinking horn makes its way between any guests, giving each one the chance to say a few words before drinking to the happy couple. Sometimes, Haukur wears a ceremonial gown but on most occasions, he shows up in a suit.

“This isn’t a reenactment, it’s an evolving tradition as relevant today as it was during the time of the first settlers,” he says. He’s happy to dress up for themed weddings but such attire isn’t necessarily the norm. “People shouldn’t think of pagan weddings as some sort of Lord of the Rings LARP, people should just be themselves.”

Nothing is sacred

Haukur has had a number of different languages spoken during his ceremonies including all the Nordic languages, German, French, Dutch, Russian, Polish, Hungarian, Romanian, Spanish and, even Hebrew – in a ceremony that included a few Jewish customs.

He’s also had some memorable experiences with pagan weddings in Iceland: once someone fell into a river and on another occasion, a hike to the site of the ceremony proved too difficult for a wedding guest.

A wedding photography in a pagan icelandic wedding
Picture by Kristín María for Pink Iceland

Pagan ceremonies usually take place in proximity with nature, but Haukur recommends having a plan B. When it comes to the where, when, and how, he says, nothing is so sacred it can’t be changed. People from all over the world come to Iceland with varying ideas for their dream weddings. If the weather conditions are bad, there’s always some solution in sight.

“After marrying over 200 couples, one has a few good stories up one’s sleeve,” Haukur says with a laugh. “But no matter how simple or extravagant the wedding is, it’s always fun to be a part of people’s day”

The perfect destination wedding

For further information about getting married at Hotel Rangá we recommend our Wedding Page or contact our wedding coordinator with any questions you might have.

 

& let’s end this beautiful pagan love story with the Icelandic symphony orchestra performing the song Kvaðning with one of Iceland’s best known rock bands, Skálmöld.

 

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