Icelandic wedding traditions are still sometimes incorporated into modern day weddings. Keep reading to learn what traditions have stood the test of time and what traditions have been tossed aside.
Icelandic wedding traditions: buying the bride
To start with, the Icelandic word for wedding, “brúðkaup” literally means “buying the bride.” Back in the day, weddings were primarily seen as an economic transaction between the father of the bride and the groom (or his father).
Today, Icelandic men and women are free to choose their own partners. However, it is still traditional for a bride to be walked down the aisle by her father. What’s more, many grooms choose their fathers as the best man. There’s a lot of sitting and standing during the ceremony. Finally, after the couple has said their “I do’s” the father of the bride switches seats with the groom.
The traditional Icelandic wedding cake: Kransakaka
When it comes to festive food, there’s nothing quite as traditional as the Icelandic Kransakaka. This tasty almond confection is commonly served at christenings, confirmations, and weddings. These crumbly, layered pastry wreaths usually stretch up into a small tower concealing wrapped pieces of candy.
Icelandic wedding traditions: the olden times
While Viking wedding feasts used to stretch over a number of days, a modern ceremony in any religion will usually take 30 to 45 minutes. Most Icelandic wedding ceremonies are in churches. However, outdoor settings are also popular. In the olden days, weddings usually took place at the end of the slaughtering season in August. Why? At this time of year, food was plenty and weather conditions still allowed for travel on horseback.
It was customary for women and men to celebrate separately before and after a wedding ceremony. Men would ride their horses and drink while women would gather at the bride’s family home. This tradition is almost completely gone in favor of Americanized bachelor/bachelorette parties. However, some couples still ask women to sit on one side during the ceremony and men on the other.
To be blessed in a bridal bed
Another Icelandic phrase for getting married is to “walk to a shared bed” or “ganga í eina sæng”. Back in the old days, the couple was usually blessed in their “bridal bed” by the pastor while sipping from a shared cup. This tradition has a different form in the modern version of an Ásatrú wedding. In this tradition, the couple sips from a drinking horn as the pagan priest blesses their union.
Ásatrú is the old Norse religion of the Vikings which is now very popular in Iceland and abroad. If you would like to learn more about Pagan Weddings we recently shared a Pagan Wedding Lovestory to our blog.
Icelandic wedding traditions: A morning gift
Speaking of the bridal bed, back in the day, the male wedding guests would playfully bid for the bride’s virginity at the end of the night. The bridesmaids would always choose the groom as the winner, who had prepared a special present for his new wife. This tradition developed into the more tame tradition of “morgungjöf” meaning “morning gift.” This tradition is often still observed by both brides and grooms following their wedding night.
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& at the end, we would like to share with you the brass section of the Icelandic Symphony Orchestra performing the Icelandic Hymn called Heyr Himna Smiður.